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Reclaiming Your Fire - Burning for YOURSELF Again

Who Are You Burning For?


Women are rarely encouraged to ask this question. In fact, we’re taught to believe we’re meant to burn—for everyone and everything.To give. To caretake. To focus on anyone and everyone but ourselves.That’s what a “good woman” is, right?A giver. A nurturer.

But this understanding is incomplete.

Because unless a woman is nurturing herself, giving to herself, and focusing on herself with as much devotion as she offers others…She will lose herself.And her life will start to feel like a sacrifice.


So, Who Are You Burning For?

Who are you showing love, hospitality, and care to?Who are you focusing your thoughts and energy on? Who are you opening the temple of your body to? Who are you feeding—and do they feed you in return?

Are you really being filled up in your exchanges? Or have you simply taught yourself to accept crumbsin exchange for the banquet you offer?


Who are you giving your life giving fire to?
Who are you giving your life giving fire to?

Try This Exercise

Take the top 5–10 relationships in your life—Your spouse. Your children. Your mother or father.Your boss. Your clients. Your friends.

The people you spend the most time with.Now audit them.

Yes, audit them.

Ask yourself:

  • What do I give in this relationship?

  • What do I receive?

  • Is this dynamic reciprocal, or one-sided?

  • Does this connection energize me—or drain me?


The Pattern That Drains Us

So often, women give:

  • Our hearts

  • Our soul

  • Our deep presence

  • Our wisdom

  • Our emotional intelligence

…to people who cannot meet us at that depth.To people who cannot—or will not—offer us space, compassion, or care in return.

And that is the root of so much resentment, depletion, and internal collapse.


Reclaim Your Power

Audit. And then adjust.

This is where your power lives.

This is High Priestess Energy:She knows her worth.She knows her value.And she stands in it.

She is not cruel.She is clear.She is self-respecting.


A Heads Up...

You will feel guilty when you start to pull your energy back.You’ll feel it when you stop over-nurturing relationships that are not worthy of your depth.

Let the guilt come. Let it rise.

And then choose self-honoring action anyway.

Watch what happens when you do.

Watch your value rise.Watch people recalibrate to orbit your new worth.Watch your energy return to you.

Feel how it heals your body.Feel how it reawakens your sensuality.Feel how it restores your joy, your confidence, your radiance.

Feel how it brings peace.

You are not everyone’s milk mother.You are not a woman so lonely that she must over-give just to feel connected.

You are a living temple.You are a source of beauty, wisdom, and power.

And you deserve to burn for you.

Ready to Go Deeper?


Join me September 19–22 for She Rises: The Retreat An alchemical, intimate gathering for women who are ready to stop burning out and start burning bright.


🌿 Only 10 spots remain.This is a sacred container for women ready to rise.



 
 
 

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